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It is important for women to remain calm, even if criticism offends or angers them
People tend to criticize others while forgetting about themselves. Husbands may criticize their wives for a reason. However, it is important to respond to words correctly. This was reported by RBC-Ukraine with reference to a post by psychologist Irina Kulik on Instagram.
Stay calm
It is important for women to remain calm, even if criticism offends or angers them. It is important to try to remain calm, even if it is difficult to do so.
If this can be done, it will help avoid conflict and find a constructive solution.
Listen actively
Listen to his point of view and views. Ask for specific details or examples to better understand your husband’s views.
Don’t be afraid to express your feelings
It is important not to be afraid to express your thoughts about criticism received. This may help your husband understand you better.
Don’t accept criticism
The psychologist advises to imagine that the criticism is directed at your actions or actions, and not personally. This will help avoid feelings of resentment or neglect.
Work together to solve the problem
Irina Kulik noted that it is necessary to offer general options for resolving the situation or improving work on shortcomings.
The ability to respond appropriately to criticism is important for any relationship. This will improve your understanding and maintain a healthy relationship with your man.
It’s not your problem
Another point that must be taken into account: any criticism is a reflection of the problems of the one who expresses it to you, and you may have nothing to do with it. A person can suffer greatly if he transfers his internal experiences into the form of claims towards other people.
