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How to understand that you should not start a new relationship yet
Sometimes a woman cannot understand whether she should start a new relationship. A painful breakup in the past, resentment towards your ex and complexes – all this can prevent you from moving on.
How to understand that you should not start a new relationship yet, says Your Tango.
You always choose the wrong ones
If your “compass” is broken and constantly leads to relationships with men who are not at all suitable for you, you definitely shouldn’t force yourself to start another romance. You may be subconsciously choosing the wrong partners because you don’t want a relationship. And if this is the case, your compass will always lead to men who are not right for you.
You can’t be happy without a man
If you feel “incomplete” when you don’t have a partner next to you, and at the same time you are constantly trying to find at least someone, you should stop. First, you should learn to be happy without a man, only then will you be able to build an adult and correct relationship.
Do you want to save the man who is next to you?
Some women suffer from the so-called “lifeguard complex.” And if you have deliberately entered into a relationship in which you have to decide everything, you should think about why this is happening. Perhaps you should work through your problems before starting a new romance.
You need someone who will save you
Sometimes it happens the other way around, and then a woman looks for a man who should solve all the problems. Think about why you don’t believe in yourself and try to shift responsibility to others. You definitely shouldn’t start a relationship until you’ve sorted everything out.
Are you looking for someone who will complete you?
If you don’t consider yourself a whole person, you shouldn’t try to solve this problem by looking for a relationship. First you must understand why you don’t respect yourself.
You devote more time to relationships than to your interests. If a man and an affair with him are the only thing that interests you, that’s bad. You can “smother” your chosen one with your attention and it will all end in a breakup. That’s why before starting a relationship you should find something that interests you, and it’s definitely not dating.
You haven’t worked through old traumas
When a woman starts a new relationship but still thinks about the negative things from the past, her romance is doomed. You should not look for a chosen one if you are still offended by your ex. First you need to let go of the past.
For the sake of your new chosen one, you are ready to do anything
If you really like a man and for his sake you start lying, being “comfortable” and ideal, then this relationship is not destined to be happy. Start loving and accepting yourself, no need to change and pretend to be another person.
