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These words cannot be spoken to either him or her, because they can kill all feelings in a couple.
There are words and phrases that can offend people close to us. Psychologists and relationship experts have identified five common phrases that you should never say to your partner. Because these words devalue him as a person. Therefore, relationships can be seriously threatened by such statements, even if they continue for a very long time.
We tell you what phrases it is better not to say to your loved one, then your relationship will be strong and happy.
What words should you not say to your loved one?
- Do you know what they say about you? This is the worst thing a person can do – repeat various offensive things to their significant other. You need to be prepared for the fact that your partner will also be offended by you. Therefore, you should not upset your loved one again.
- “I almost fell in love with her/him.” We do not live on another planet, but in a society where there are other people. Therefore, even in the most ideal relationships, it happens that one of the partners may like the other person. But this does not mean that you need to tell your significant other about this, because such words can shake the trust and mutual understanding in a couple.
- “How can you even like this book/music/movie?” With such a phrase you devalue the tastes and preferences of your other half. Thus showing that your partner’s values are not important to you. Therefore, he may wonder if you are really the person he needs.
- “That’s what pisses me off the most about you.” Yes, in a couple it is necessary to discuss all conflict situations so that later there are no emotional explosions on both sides. But don’t constantly emphasize what annoys you about your partner. If this really ruins your life, and you cannot accept your soulmate with all its shortcomings, then you should think about whether this is the person you are ready to be with forever.
- “It doesn’t suit you.” If your partner has difficulty choosing clothes, then you should help him, and not practice sarcastic remarks in his direction. Because who, if not you, should help your soulmate solve those issues that your loved one cannot cope with on their own.
