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Rational thinking prevails among men and they see inconsistency in such statements addressed to them.
Every woman sometimes makes mistakes in communication and relationships with a man. However, this is something that simply irritates each of the stronger sex, but almost every girl does it.
RBC-Ukraine talks about what irritates men most when communicating with women, citing a video by psychologist Alexander Tsurkan on Instagram.
What irritates men most when communicating with women?
According to the psychologist, what irritates men most when communicating with girls are metaphrases like:
- Always
- never
- constantly
- all the time.
And also general expressions:
- “We never go anywhere”
- “You’re always late”
- “I clean myself all the time.”
“In men, rational thinking prevails and they see an inconsistency in such statements addressed to them. Really always and every time? In these words, a man hears empty attacks, slander and devaluation and expresses the right anger, giving examples of the opposite,” says the psychologist.
In such cases, a man has questions like these:
- “You mean we don’t go anywhere? We just did last week.”
- “Why constantly? I was late only for the second time and last week, by the way, I was cleaning too.”
That is, men in these situations not only begin to ask questions, but also angrily appeal, because they feel that this is a distorted situation. But women do not understand that their attacks only aggravate the man’s anger and he will definitely never agree with these facts.
“Instead of inflaming with these phrases, it is better to tell your partner about your needs,” the psychologist advises.
And this can be done using the following phrases:
- “Let’s walk together more often”
- “Take me away earlier, this is important to me”
- “I’m so tired of housework. I need your help.”
And according to the specialist, only a “unlucky” man will refuse these requests.
