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The person who insults you has only one mission – to hurt you.
Once the great psychologist, Sigmund Freud, said that a strong personality should not take on the burden of other people’s statements. Usually, when a person insults, it has nothing to do with us, it just hurts and feels bad for him. For each of us shares with others only what he carries within himself. We tell you what to do when you start to be insulted or humiliated.
How to resist insults and bad behavior
There is no need to argue, you just need to say “yes” to any negative words spoken towards you. How and why does it work? When you calmly agree with your opponent’s statements, you dissolve the psychological pressure that comes from him. Then the person who offended you will be forced to calm down, because you are not giving him any reason to continue the dialogue. By saying “yes,” you devalue any negativity, making it impossible to make the next attack in your direction.
Improve your self-esteem, you are what you think you are
Therefore, so that you are not touched by offensive words, think only the best about yourself, you must become the most valuable person for yourself. Don’t let others shake your belief that you are the best. Then you will be completely indifferent to the fact that you are being insulted.
And if there are people around you who criticize or insult you, you should think about excluding them from your social circle. Because life is too short to waste it on toxic people who do nothing but poison everything around them.
