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We tell you how to understand that your ex-boyfriend wants to come back and whether you should take him back.
It is rare to meet a girl to whom her ex-boyfriend or husband has not tried to return. According to the law of meanness, exes come back when everything is fine with you – a new life, work, friends and even relationships, writes UNIAN.
Why your ex constantly reminds you of himself – the main reasons
If you periodically stand in front of the mirror and ask yourself the question: “Why is my ex-boyfriend interested in my personal life?” or shows himself to be suspiciously involved in some other way, which means there are reasons for this. You can, of course, take him at his word and heed his promises to “love until the grave,” because “he realized everything,” but psychologists cite several more real factors that influence a man’s actions.
affair
It may turn out that after your breakup the young man never met anyone – even for a light affair. You are a proven, convenient and 100% option that can be used for personal purposes.
Self-love
If you left a man, you most likely hurt his ego, and this is a real disaster. A young man may try to get you back only to increase his self-esteem and end the relationship himself, taking the position of the leading player.
Habit
After a breakup, people have to leave their comfort zone – look for new partners, get acquainted, communicate, and come to terms with the nuances of the other person’s personality. And the ex-girlfriend is a familiar, understandable and predictable creature. Therefore, sometimes young people return out of habit – they are too lazy to face the unknown.
Doubts
Perhaps your man decided to break up under the influence of emotions. Time passed, he thought it over and realized that he had made a mistake – he lost his temper. He wants to return to you not out of love, but because of doubts – he is not completely sure of the correctness of his action.
Loneliness
Some people, including men, are completely unable to live alone. They are bored, scared, and have nothing to do with themselves. They are used to constantly “dealing with relationships” and another person, and without him life stops. If your man is like that, then he may try to win you back so that he has something to spend his time on.
The kind of girls exes return to depends on many factors. Of course, you can be a fatal beauty, an unapproachable lioness and Angelina Jolie herself, and a man will leave you once and for all. Or vice versa – he will want to renew the relationship, even if you are an ordinary girl. In any case, you must make the decision, and not rely on chance – it is advisable to act wisely and not succumb to the charms of your ex-boyfriend.
